Whasup everyone?!! It's been a pleasure writing and sharing with you on CLM. I have made some great friends and some wonderful scumbag enemies! It's been a blast! :) Thank you all! In life change happens. I felt this change coming for a while and I put it off for a long time, yet today the time has come...time for me to leave the CLM life and move onto new adventures. Read more…

In another one of my blogs there was a guy who commented about not replying to a beautiful woman because she looked "high maintenance". I immediately thought, "What a damn fool..." Why would anyone pass on a beautiful woman and judge her without even taking the time to KNOW for sure that she is not right for him? Some dudes are very insecure and will pass on a beautiful woman because they feel she is too pretty to ever want them, but for a man to pass on a beautiful woman because he THINKS she is high maintenance without knowing for sure?! Damn silly! Frankly, I don't know if I should applaud such a guy or chastise him. We are taught to not judge by looks alone, but it seems to happen all the time doesn't it?? Read more…

Are you thinking about your first meeting? Are you thinking about your first impression? What will you wear? How will you do your hair (for those with hair)? Are you going to live up to your photos? I hope so. This is the time to see if you match the person in the photos on your profile. This is also for the men as well as the women because a lot of the men look tired and raggedy as hell on here! (Go look at your photos and see for yourself! Haaaha- Make an effort and try to spruce yourself up and take new photos!) For those who have good photos on your profile...sure, your photos have you looking beautiful and sexy, but what is the REAL DEAL when looking in the mirror? No, not 3 years ago, but right now? Go look. I'll wait till you come back... Read more…

I got a message, "How come I get no messages from men on here?" Well ask yourself, "Are you ALL the woman you can be?!!" Most will not like what I say here, but it's not like I haven't said it before. I know many will come out and talk about how, "Beauty is more than skin deep; blah, blah, blah! Look at a person's heart and personality in their search for their life-mate/ wife; blah, blah, blah! Well, I'm here to tell you, bullshit! Stop lying to others and yourself. Don't believe that crap for a second. I can believe it partially if a woman says that, because all men are BUTT-UGLY to me! Haahaa! But if men are talking that garbage, you are faking the funk and trying to not come off so shallow. But I'll say it and admit it, I like a pretty woman and damn it, if that makes me shallow, then I'm a shallow-loving-ass-fool! I make an effort to look good and I love my woman looking pretty! There is nothing wrong with that. A woman who puts forth the effort to show her beauty and sex appeal is ATTRACTIVE to me and to most other men. Read more…

I'm going to get personal here. Blogger Victoria's entry, "Good Man" brought up some concerns that I have been experiencing with my own lovely wife. I try not to get personal in my blogs and fail almost every time. :) My wife does not like me sharing our personal business in the street, but this one is f*cking bothering me that I must preach it out of me today. I'm heated 'yall! Are you ready? Read more…

Sheeesh, the way I'm living, I am starting to think I'm getting too comfortable. Like I have no damn life. Possibly it is true! It seems like work, home, sleep and then do it all over again. Days are passing by in a blink of an eye. Especially since a new job for the wife began in June. Top that off with her busy studying her English classes, she barely has time to spare. Typical home life. It's starting to get too comfy around here and I don't like it. Read more…

Ok, enough of the bitching and griping with the scumbags and blind-ass relationships I have been hearing from CLM women. I'm fed up and thought I need to be boring for a change. JohnAbbot was very eager to read a nice boring blog of domestication, so here it is! Blame him if this blog article sucks! Ha ha! Read more…

I have tried to offer support and guidance for Chinese women here on CLM with meeting men. I have written articles to support the men too, but more-so Chinese women because they seem like a innocent child lost in Disney World. Amazed, full of wonder and happy-life possibilities, but easily manipulated if partnered with the wrong person. So I offered advice, views and thoughts on dating and relationships. I openly scolded those justly and did not hold my tongue with the scumbags (men and women alike) that exist here and in the real world. Today I am going to stop all of that. I am officially backing away with trying to offer help and advice. Because I feel defeated, deflated and frustrated. My wife and a few friends over in China have finally convinced me that Chinese women are desperate and it is pointless to expect them to listen to helpful advice when they are BLINDED by a crush, infatuation, love, or whatever you want to call it. I am finished with trying anymore. Read more…

I don't know how, but I think I have come across the guy with 3 women wanting to marry him that YayaLiu wrote about in her blog "Women Actually Have Much Stupid". Two of the women this guy is wooing now know about him and each other. But instead of getting mad at this guy for misleading them, they bicker amongst themselves about who is this man's woman! After talking with my wife, maybe these women will never learn. I will not mince words...Maybe YayaLiu is correct. Chinese women can be very stupid! All I do know is that this dude is a scumbag. Pure and simple. He is misleading good Chinese women to believe they are the only one for him. He is not alone. I'm privy to other women used by other scumbags too. So allow me to list a few of the scumbag tactics that men use to charm Chinese women. Pay close attention, you traditional Chinese women, because you are the easiest targets for a scumbag. Read more…

Hello! I get messages from new members sometimes… "I am serious with finding a man to marry on here, but I am very disappointed so far. I have not found anyone to be with." I share this person letter to all of you Chinese/Asian women new to this website. Especially those that get discouraged because love is not happening for them here as fast as they would like. Most of my regular readers will find this blog repetitive, so it feel free to skip this entry. It's for the new members, really. Read more…