I won't bore you with the intricate details of our online courtship, especially considering how I have exhaustively introduced myself in my previous post. Today I just want to share with you a handful of things that I wish I'd figured out earlier on, as they made my life so much easier and helped build trust between us before our fateful face-to-face meeting. Read more…

We're really excited here at both CLM and ALM to present a great new blogger. Nari is a Korean born, American raised, lady who is in a long term relationship with a Chinese man. She is Asian but not Chinese - our first such blogger, so she has a strong connection to ALM, and surely she'll give us a great sense of how Korean women think. She was raised in the west so she will have no misconceptions about Western men. She won't be buying into our crap. And she pretty clearly is not afraid to write what she thinks. We want to thank Bren who got to know Nari first, and introduced her to us. It seems only appropriate that Bren have the honour of introducing Nari and he's kindly agreed to do so. Welcome to Nari's blog. Read more…