10 Views | 0 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/19/2012 7:34:00 PM
I’ve not written for a while - the main reason is that I was travelling a little - the first time I went 'home' in 7 years. It was a strange and surreal experience on so many levels - seeing family, re-meeting friends, catching up with old emotions in old locations. Read more…
130 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/17/2012 12:23:23 AM
We often say hello to someone else :” How are you ?” But we always forget asked ourselves:” How am I?” When we are deserted by the one we ever loved deeply , we will feel enough sadness, pain and hopelessness.It seems all joy drained from the betrayal and hurt. Read more…
192 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/15/2012 11:33:22 PM
Reply Danruble: I very like your comments in a sentence, is "One man's trash is another man's treasure." You write very well!!! Oh, Danruble,sorry, During this period I participated in the training of a project, so I can not respond promptly to you, very sorry, now I put it in the form of the Bowen,hope to let more people see: Read more…
364 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/13/2012 3:57:58 PM
It feels like happened yesterday. When I came to Canada almost 30 years ago I was having a coffee with a Chinese gentleman, a witty businessman and his words sounded like a prophecy. He took a deep breath, his eyes looked like if he could envision the future and he said “In just a matter of few years, China will attain an immense growth and wealth and become incredibly powerful and this will surprise a lot of people”. The success of Great China in every front is something really awesome and undeniable. Read more…
611 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/8/2012 12:47:56 AM
Marriage in not only a great system ,but also a relationship between man and woman . Read more…
377 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/2/2012 9:36:29 PM
I only had to wait 7 days to get my work visa after the long process of getting the paperwork together. My passport and papers only spent a few hours at the Chinese consulate, which means it spent more time in transit back and forth than it took for the Chinese government to look at it and give me my work visa page. Ironic when you think about how long things take when you deal with the U.S. government. I’d almost go as far as to say the government here is much more efficient than the U.S. but I’m sure I just haven’t run into the horror stories that others have encountered here. Read more…
923 Views | 18 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/4/2012 2:44:10 PM
I have a twin sister, sometimes I will pour out my troubles of single life to her. Once my sister suddenly asked me, “Did you lose confidence in man, especially in Chinese man?” Read more…
247 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/29/2012 9:22:25 PM
About one thousand years ago, a young girl who named ZhuYingtai, lived a small village, Zhujiazhuang, Shangyu, Zhejiang. ZhuYingTai was a beautiful elegant and very smart girl. She was fond of reading and loved to attend school. But in her time women were not allowed to go outside and acquire an education. Although Zhu was the only daughter of his parent, she didn't get his father's permission to travel to Hangzhou to attend school. Zhu felt so disappointing which made her ill. In the end Zhu's father gave in and agreed her to go to Hangzhou to attend school but she have to disguised (dressed) her self as a man. That means she have to pretend to be a man to go outside. Read more…
295 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/2/2012 8:51:22 PM
When I left off I had just returned from Hong Kong and nearly didn’t make it back because of a “passport malfunction” aka washed twice in the wash. I decided that it was time to get serious about getting my paperwork straight just so I didn’t have to go to Hong Kong so much because once in a while is ok but when you have to go all the time, it gets old fast. So I put in all my paperwork and prayed for the best, because I had been advised by many foreigners online and in person in China that it would be a long shot for me to get my work visa. Read more…
580 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/2/2012 11:32:03 AM
I just came across a fascinating article in the most recent edition of Foreign Policy magazine. Don’t worry, this isn’t some dry treatise on détente or Thom Friedman’s latest paean to globalization. Instead, it is right up the alley of our shared interests and extremely relevant to your pursuits on this website Titled “The Startling Plight of China’s Leftover Women” and written by Christina Larson the essay begins with an interesting conundrum. If men outnumber women in Chinese society, why are there a growing number of unmarried women here? Read more…
391 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/29/2012 8:16:25 PM
People refer a man who is afraid of his wife as henpecked. Philosopher Socrates says, If your wife is kind, you are lucky; if your wife is evil, you will become a philosopher. Ha ha, I guess this is why Socrates is the greatest philosopher. Read more…
432 Views | 3 Comments | 3 Articles | 4/24/2012 8:58:28 AM
Children’s Complex Feelings Read more…
792 Views | 6 Comments | 1 Articles | 4/14/2012 7:16:47 AM
As you will know if you are a regular reader of the profiles on this site, many of the women describe themselves as traditional Chinese woman (传统中国女性). The word can evoke different responses from different people. I got an interesting perspective on it the other day from a friend, the Chengdu poet Liao Hui, during one of our bi-weekly languages exchanges, which are rapidly becoming my favorite part of being in Chengdu. Read more…
576 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/22/2012 12:06:27 PM
Poetry, Robert Frost famously said, is what is lost in translation. The other afternoon I was given a chance to test whether this claim was true when I joined a workshop at the Chengdu Literary Festival. At the workshop, three Chinese poets brought along three of their poems while the participants of the workshop — a combination of Chinese translation students and native English speakers — broke into groups, with each group taking a shot at putting one of the poems into English. Read more…
557 Views | 0 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/18/2012 5:05:40 PM
It’s a nice day here today, sunny and warmer in the day. Now sitting in my teaching center, I can smell the vegetables and flowers from the garden from five meters away. It is so quiet at night. Are there any frogs in it? I am wondering…. Read more…
462 Views | 7 Comments | 1 Articles | 3/12/2012 3:30:07 PM
It is funny how you can measure progress in something - most people would say that when learning a foreign language, progress should be measured against the number of words you know, or the number of lessons you have mastered or how well you write an exam. But my putonghua (Chinese common language) is mostly self-taught by flailing around in China using language badly, getting help from teachers and friends every now and then for a month or two (but not doing any homework) and listening to others. Read more…
396 Views | 4 Comments | 1 Articles | 3/6/2012 9:33:36 PM
The call for stardom came quickly and unexpectedly as do most things in China – like earthquakes and cultural revolutions. Read more…
373 Views | 0 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/22/2012 3:14:07 PM
I was watching a young girl and her foreign boyfriend the other day as I was sitting in a bar - as he was pontificating and espousing to her about every topic in China, she was sitting beside him looking intently, smiling and snuggling - obviously not understanding any viewpoint he had (American political history meets global conspiracy theories and China), I couldn't help but notice it was a match made in indifference - well, intellectual indifference anyway, since she understood “hello - goodbye - how are you” English and he understood “another beer - too expensive - hello sexy girl” Chinese. Read more…
574 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/3/2012 1:30:50 PM
“A question ain’t really a question/if you know the answer too” Read more…
376 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/22/2012 3:12:09 PM
I was doing some Internet searches last week - I am creating some brochures for my company so I was looking for happy, smiling portraits of Chinese people. You know, people satisfied with the services I offer, business people in suits that benefit from my limited knowledge, cute girls (without the duck-face pout or the V pose... that’s a hard one!) and handsome boys with slick hair and crisp shirts who become professional corporate ladder-climbers through my assistance... anyway, you get the picture. Read more…
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