580 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/2/2012 11:32:03 AM
I just came across a fascinating article in the most recent edition of Foreign Policy magazine. Don’t worry, this isn’t some dry treatise on détente or Thom Friedman’s latest paean to globalization. Instead, it is right up the alley of our shared interests and extremely relevant to your pursuits on this website Titled “The Startling Plight of China’s Leftover Women” and written by Christina Larson the essay begins with an interesting conundrum. If men outnumber women in Chinese society, why are there a growing number of unmarried women here? Read more…
482 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/30/2012 2:22:05 PM
An interesting piece of material floated over the Chinese Internet last week, that being Tu Shiyou, the proclaimed ”Goddess of Chastity”. Read more…
516 Views | 0 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/22/2012 3:08:53 PM
A small piece of trivia crossed my path the other day, a few pictures from the ChengDu Police micro blog of eligible young policemen that may be suitable for 'shedding single status' this year...true, about 10 steely-eyed young men, 24-29 years old, each carrying automatic weapons or in poses of ’rushing to assist’ kittens out of trees and old ladies to cross the road... in full riot gear. It somehow had me giggling! Yes, I know that in other countries they do posters/calendars of semi-naked sports stars or local firemen going buff for charity with a strategically placed high-pressure nozzle over the nether-regions, but I haven't really seen the idea of photographing young men at work with the expressed objective of ’marrying them off’. What next, introducing 5 single farmers of the week on CCTV 4 between the news and weather report? Or Bachelors of the PLA between the pictures of them firing guns and driving tanks? Read more…
1294 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/10/2012 6:11:17 PM
There are a few questions from guys that can really piss me off nicely. It might come out unconsciously as a habit that a man tries to impress a lady on the first conversation. Yet it hits me like a clocked bomb when I hear this: Read more…
875 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/18/2012 7:32:08 AM
Religion is often considered a big deal in dating in America. There are whole dating websites devoted to members of a single religion. Along with one’s political affiliation, religious belief is often a significant factor in the selection of a life partner. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Shared values are important in a meaningful relationship, and one’s religion and politics are, in America, a reasonable indicator of one’s value scheme. Read more…
1064 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/27/2011 12:12:21 AM
时下,金钱与婚姻似乎成为了一个热议的话题。结婚,需考察对方资本如何?是否能拥有自己梦想的物质生活。离婚,需考虑自己投入多少?(无论财力,物力或是体力)我又能从这次婚变中分割多少财产。 Read more…
650 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/19/2011 3:33:40 PM
Online dating means a lot to some people and nothing to others. Online dating can make someone a forture and cost others a fortune. Online dating can be fun for certain people but a huge pain for the else. Read more…
641 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/16/2011 9:51:57 PM
Love is a legend. It’s not common. It should be locked in a crystal box and kept away from noises and dusts. Nowadays it gets used and abused quite often. Most people don’t even know what it is. They talk about it; they say it and they think they have it. No, they don’t have it; they are using its name to get what they want. Read more…
1139 Views | 12 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/6/2011 3:08:18 PM
If you read the introductions on CLM, many Chinese women (over the age of 30) will describe themselves as being 'traditional'. Some chinese bloggers have also added a little to the discussion about 'real' Chinese women and 'virtuous' Chinese women through discussion of character and thought patterns. Read more…
495 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/24/2011 10:18:04 AM
The Spring Festival coupling time is on the horizon in China, the time when young people look for the 'boyfriend/girlfriend' so they can return to their hometown with photographs of their prospective mate in a few months time.  Read more…
1677 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/6/2011 9:52:25 AM
If you have been watching the News of The World media tangle/phone hacking scandal in the UK, you may have seen the Chinese wife of Rupert Murdoch, Wendi Deng, defend her husband against a ’cream pie’ attack from a protester with a few well-placed slaps and a lot of gusto. Read more…
1292 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/26/2010 7:59:19 PM
I am a game player!! Read more…
1100 Views | 0 Comments | 1 Articles | 5/13/2010 5:33:09 PM
(This blog post will be more meaningful if you've read the first one...) Ask anyone who has ever been to China and tried to cross the road as a pedestrian or even worse, caught a taxi – rules are irrelevant!!! Well, maybe this is a bit excessive because obviously people do follow a rules or two when driving a car – those are Read more…
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