I recently received a letter from young Chinese man, who I understand to be a born in the UK but in any event has spent his life there, expressing serious concerns that Caucasian women may be prejudiced against him because he is Chinese. He asked for my comments and I responded by asking if he would be willing to let me make this a blog article so he would get not only my thoughts, but hopefully the considered thoughts of a number of other western men as well. He wrote back and agreed that was a good idea. I apologize to him because it has taken me several weeks getting around to writing this. Read more…

“Someone who thinks the world is always cheating him is right. He is missing that wonderful feeling of trust in someone or something”. Eric Hoffer Read more…

Just in time to depress you for Valentine’s Day, a nevertheless fascinating read in the Washington Post. Titled, “The Single Life: Some People Never Find the Love of Their Lives. And Live to Tell About It,” the article chronicles people in their late forties, fifties, and sixties who have never been married and investigates “why?” Read more…

There are a few questions from guys that can really piss me off nicely. It might come out unconsciously as a habit that a man tries to impress a lady on the first conversation. Yet it hits me like a clocked bomb when I hear this: Read more…